I want to be able to ACTUALLY see my account...how

a phone is a phone and the payment for use method is either per pay in which case you buy time on a pre paid card or pay at the end of the time on an account from your service provider
If you want a monthly account then arrange that account with your service provider
even if it is a pre-paid phone you can change that to an account by making arrangements with your service provider

Log into Paypal and you can check your account from there

It may be that you accidentally ordered it twice, and they've just canceled the second order. Check in your Amazon account (Your account-Your orders-Digital orders) and see if you've actually been charged for this book. If you have, and it's really not available for downloading to your Kindle or already on it, contact them through <https://www.amazon.com/gp/help/customer/contact-us> with the dates you ordered and paid for the book. I've always found Kindle customer service swift, competent, and fair in adjusting errors.

Your account could at this point be suspended or deactivated unless this is a paid account (terms and conditions tell you how long your account stays enabled after inactivity).

Go to your bank and ask them for the statements for that year.

if they paid you the money is IN your paypal account..if they didn't then it won't be in the PP account. there is no "accept/reject..it's either they paid it or they didn't check your PP balance again

Its actually pretty simple. Check your account page to sign up to become an expert. After you prove your quality of work you can apply to get paid for it. I've only just started, but helping people is always a nice thing to do, getting paid makes it even better!

I would recommend that you reset your password, and then you should be able to access the account.

Contact the person whose account you have paid into - they should be able to reverse the payment at their end and it will go straight back into your account. If this is not an option, contact paypal help and they will do it for you. Paypal have always been excellent as far as costumer service goes when i have dealt with them,

Actually, you do not want to reduce the product name. When you make the deposit from PayPal, you want it to be for the full amount the customer paid. Then add a second line with a minus amount for the fees, and the account of paypal fees (expense). This way, you split off the fees paid to paypal as an expense, and the bank reconcile matches.
Attempting to reduce the ProductName will only result in tax liability issues, as you have to charge sales tax on the full amount the customer was originally charged.
Using a negative line on the deposit to split the paypal fees off is a much cleaner process, and causes no confussion for the accountants.