How do i use a slim jim on a 09 honda crv - 2009 Honda CR-V

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09 Honda crv, lx. radio
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This looks to be the entire wiring diagram of a honda CRV. Couldn't find one for 96 but hopefully this is close enough to get you the answers you wanted. http://www.autowiringmanual.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/1997-crv-system-wiring-diagrams.pdf

You don't a locksmith with a license does.

You can get the door panel off without the door being open, it is very difficult but doable. The other choice is to have a locksmith come out and open the door manually with a slim jim.

yes this is true on honda's anyway

The rough running should not be related at all to your steering column lock. Neither would the starting as the steering lock is designed to prevent you from turning the key.

I would have your car serviced since it's well under warranty

how can you turn the steering wheel to lock position while in drive? did it actually click in lock positon while in drive?

if you have verical lock you can use a slim jim.but if your lock are horusutil you will need a differnt toll.

yes

a coat hanger or a slim jim.  next time hide a key somewhere on the car.