I can’t get this speaker paired to my iPhone - Cell Phones

If your speaker supports Bluetooth. Use the screenshots below to connect to your device. If not, you can use a wire from your iPhone to the speaker. it looks like the last screenshot below.

On your phone...
Go to Settings and then Bluetooth. Turn on Bluetooth. Look for your JBL device under "OTHER DEVICES" and tap on it to connect.
On your speaker.
Turn on pairing mode for your JBL deivce
Find your JBL device on your phone or laptop and pair them
Confirm successful pairing
JBL speakers typically have a dedicated Bluetooth button to use to pair your speaker.

Turn on the speaker, hit the Bluetooth pairing button on the speaker, go to settings on your iphone, then click the Bluetooth menu on your iphone, turn on Bluetooth and then click on the speaker description as it pops up near the bottom of the menu. You should be connected if this is a Bluetooth speaker.

You did not mention pairing it. Remember that bluetooth speakers need to be paired with your IPhone. Consult your speakers documentation for steps to pair the device to your phone.

clear any past stored passwords. reset unit and put into discovery mode. Usually holding the pair button for a few seconds puts the LED blue into fast flashing - discvery mode

On the iphone in bluetooth menu delete all soma speakers.
on the soma put it into bluetooth discovery mode
on the iphone wait till soma speaker shows up
select the soma speaker NOT the arrow on the right side
wait till the iphone reads 'connected'
if you are asked for a passcode use 0000

try reseting both devices

Paired is not connected. Connecting is the next step after pairing. Then make sure that the ilive speaker is set as the dudio output device.

iPhone 3 GS, This should be able to help you: http://www.lcd-screen-digitizer.com/iphone/iphone-3gs-usb-port-flex-+mic+ringer-speaker+antenna-us.html

try powering your contour down and back up put it in pairing mode, then try to connect your new phone.

you need to have the manual for hour jawbone headset and follow those instructions.  You have to put the headset in "pairing mode" and then once you do that (follow headset instructions) it's simple to just go to settings, bluetooth and tell iphone to search for the headset.  
Instead of headset issues, we're having car speaker phone issues.  I have the iphone paired with a motorola bluetooth car speaker, and it works when you are making calls.  However when a call comes in, the speaker doesn't pick up, the phone just rings as normal.  That's a problem as you need to be hands free in our state, and if a cop happens to see you, you're in for it