MY TV ONLY HAS SOUND WHEN IT IS HOOKEDUP TO THE DVD PLAYER AND A SURROND SOUND SPEAKER BUT NOT FROM THE TV OR WHEN HOOKED UP TO THE SPEAKER ON TV OR XBOX

Hi,here is the solution......
Since you successfully connected your DVD /Receiver to play video on TV (one way only ) ,here is the second reverse action to listen your TV on DVD /Receiver
** you need to connect "Audio Output " as can either be : RCA jacks or "Optic cable output" or "SCART "connector " of your TV ,
** to "TV input "or "AUX input" or "Optic Cable input"of your DVD /Receiver (whichever you want based on the necessary cables on your hand )
** than just switch to respective mode on DVD /Receiver corresponding the connector you have used on the back of DVD /Receiver ..
*You can use "HDMI" connections as well but sometimes HDMI creates problem on Audio..

There you go..Both Tv and Xbox sound are on the DVD /Receiver as SURROUNDING SOUND .By this means ,whatever you watch on the TV will come thru your DVD /Receiver SURROUNDING SOUND .

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