Is it posable to send ringtones to my phone from my comp

For this, you will need Multimedia Messaging on your phone(Text Messaging, able to send pictures). You just hit Attatch, or Insert(dont have the phone personally but everythings relativeley the same). From this point either pick "Tone", "Music", "Media", "Multimedia", or something similar. Navigate to the tone and viola! Send it to your wife :) On the other side, if this doesnt work, google "Decoy Ringtone Set" or "Decoy Ringtones", you might get lucky!

Best way I can ever suggest sending pics to a computer is simply just email them.

Bluetooth isn't the best way to do anything. It's unreliable, and a lot of phones block media transfer via bluetooth to prevent "piracy" of ringtones and stuff.

u set the ringtone from mutimedia>sounds,ussally while playing the will be option "set a ringtone" not from digital audio player,directly from sounds.
motorola does not accpet viruses infected files or their phone must be trying to send virus attachment or ur phone memory will be full.

plug it into the comp and get the updates for the phone

when you get a "sound" you want to save as a ringtone and you think you may want to use it again to send to another phone, always save it as a sound so that you can text it... Otherwise you can try looking on Phonezoo.com for the ringtone you want on your other phone, you'll have to sign up and select which phone you have. It is absolutely free. does not charge for ringtones and there is no subscription.

well what i do is access my phone through Bluetooth and that's about it. I'm still trying to figure out how to download through the wire cable since my n99i only charges my battery and my laptop doesn't even detect it

Itautomatically goes to sounds, but you can still use these sounds as ringtones by going to sounds then options then use as ringtone.

it means that your phone isn't capable of handeling that intense of a file for a ring tone

yes you can
easier by bluetooth than cable.
if your comp is not bluetooth capable you can get a BT dongle from most electronics stores this will enable your comp. and then you pair your phone whit the comp and just drag and drop

You can only get ringtones from the t-mobile catalog. You can put mp3 on your slide but not as ringtones.