Bluetooth Mobile Phone and Connectivity to Laptop

I have a NOKIA 6103 Mobile phone that I am trying to sync with my laptop. I already downloaded the nokia pc suite for interfacing, however, I can't get my laptop to recognize my phone. The phone is definitely bluetooth enabled, but I am having trouble figuring hout how to enable bluetooth services on my laptop. I did troubleshooting, and found that Windows XP SP 2 has bluetooth stacks, but the Help & Support center for HP had an article that leads me to believe I need an adapter and/or driver. How do I get this driver, and how do I activate bluetooth services on my laptop? I followed the directions and went to RUN and put in 'bthprops.cpl', but it didn't do anything. Please let me know if I need to purchase an adapter, if I need to and where I download a driver from, and anything else I am missing. Please help me.

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