Picked up my motorola defy yesterday,how do i tape a song and set it to my ringtone
Create a folder named 'ringtones' (without the quotes) on the root of your memory card, and copy the song you want to set as ringtone to that folder. Then, go to 'Menu > Settings > Sound > Phone ringtone'. The song you copied should be available to be selected.
You can set specific ringtones (sound files you copy to that folder, or any system sounds) to the people in your contact list who happen to call you most. This way you would know whos is calling you without even looking at your phone. Anyway, go to 'Contacts', select the contact entry you want to have his/her specific ringtone changed (you can press the search button and type his/her name), and tap 'Menu > Edit'. Slide to the end of the screen and tap the arrow at the right of 'Additional info'. The arrow will face down. Slide to the end of the screen again, and select 'Ringtone'. After selecting the ringtone, tap 'Save'.
Hope you find these informations useful, somehow.
Anyway, please, let me know if I can help you any further.