Can you jump a fuel pump relay on a 1996 honda shadow 600vlx

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I've got the service manual if you want it?

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http://www.carlsalter.com/motorcycle-manuals.asp

free service manual pdf here

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Do you have any Fault Indication on the MIL light? 

Can you hear the relay click when you first turn ignition on?
Note that it should turn on for a few seconds then turn off again. Power will not be permanently applied to the pump so any troubleshooting you do will require to be done in those first few seconds after you turn on. 
i.e. connect test leads to the pump connector and look for power immediately after turning on ignition - if you have power, then pump is bad. 
 

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No, the relay is being used to invert the input signal, so you can not bypass it

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Hello. Fuel capacity - reserve. 19 l (5 gallon US) - 2,7 l (0.7 gallon US)

Joe