My black wireless xbox 360 headset just wont sync with white console please help

1 Disconnect all accessories and wired controllers from the Xbox 360.
2 Hold the "Guide" button down for three seconds on any wireless controllers, then respond to the prompt on your television screen to disconnect the controllers from your system.3 turn on the wireless headset by pressing the "Power" button in the center of the earpiece. 4 Press the "Connect" button on the front of your Xbox 360 system. 5 Press the "Connect" button on the wireless headset. The ring of lights around the power button of the Xbox 360 system should spin and blink once. One of the lights should remain lit up, indicating the port number that the headset is using. If you do not see any lights on the system, you may have a faulty wireless headset.6 Press the "Guide" button on your wireless controller to reconnect the controller to the Xbox 360 system. If you are using a wired controller, you can plug it back into the system.7 Press the "Connect" button on the top of your wireless controller to sync the controller with your system. You should see the connection light around the "Guide" button on the controller light up, indicating which port you are connected to. You should also see a corresponding port light in the ring around the power button of your Xbox 360 system 8 Press the "Connect" button on the wireless headset until the port light on the headset matches the light on the controller and Xbox 360 system. For example, if you are the first player, the light for port number one should be lit up on the Xbox system, the controller and the headset. When all lights correspond, your headset should be properly connected.

There is a sync button next to the Play and Charge port on the controller, all you have to do is press both the sync button on the Xbox and the controller and it should connect. On the nonslim Xbox 360's the sync button is right next to the infared sensor and the memory card slots. On the slim Xbox 360 the sync button will be right next to the usb ports on the front of the Xbox 360 console. When you successfully start the sync the led's for the controller's and console's lights will spin and be ready for you to press the sync button on the other device.
(PS, you have to have both the console and the controller on for this to work; PPS, By controller on I mean having it searching)

Yes, however the kinect does that.

Yes you can do this. Simply get the White controller turn it on and hit the sync button at the same time as hitting the sync button on the Elite Console.

wireless headset as in plug something into 360 that transmits signal or headset where you don't plug in anything and works(if second one you are using a bluetooth which is not supported by xbox 360)

hi there,
just a quicky...but ur wireless headset dosnt sync to the controller it syncs to the xbox :-)
it dosnt matter which controller you use its synced with the xbox & not the controller !
if ur using 2 different controllers depending on which you switch on first will take player 1 as will the wireless headset. if after you have switched it on (the xbox) you decide to use the other controller it will obviousley take player 2 slot (even if you switch the other controller off first) as will the headset !
hope this helps :-)

seems like the sync problem with XBOX console, you can try fixing this with the help of XBOX 360 repair guide
available here

Have you ever synced one of these controllers before?

Hold the controller in your hand as if you were playing a game. Next flip the controller up so that the buttons on it, are facing you.

There is a small white button that you will see. Power your xbox up and after you get to your main menu press the sync button located about 2 inches to the left of your main power button on your console.

Press the described button on the console and then the described button on your controller. The two should sync together perfectly fine.

Hold down the sync button on the headset then press the sync button on the 360.

do you mean the console will not sync with the wireless headsets? if so, on the console is a lil white button near the memory card insert points, and there is also one of those lil white button things on the wireless headsets. On the headset, it is near the end that is closest to your mouth. Press and hold both of them for a few seconds (like 3s) and i usually point my wireless headset towards the console and wait for them both to flash the player "1" lights on the console and headset.