My problem is that ,my parking lights dont go on any more i checked over the wiring and fuses,also i jis realy wunt to know how to program all the aux options,windows n trunk etc. please help

The fuse for the parking lights for the 5701 is INSIDE the command module. You have to remove the door on the module to access this fuse. If the fuse is good, check the connection. Also, do the parking lights work with the vehicle switch?
If the connections were made to release the trunk and control the windows and... the remote locks, unlocks, remote starts the vehicle, there is no programming necessary. Press and hold the aux button to release the trunk. Depending on the setup and the window control being installed, it could be level1, 2 or 3. To access these different levels: Press F then aux, Press F twice then aux, Press F three times then aux, etc.