Who is in my back????????????????!
Are you asking "Who has your back?" or Who, will back you up no mater what, type of thing? Who has your back, Your family has your back, unconditional love, always there for you. They will help you to their ability, (if you do not or have not turned your back on them). This is what happens in a lot of family's. The child gets to an age (almost adult) and turns selfish, turns their back to the parents, claiming, "I'm hurt, you hurt me", "you will not let me be me", then through selfish acts, push the parents away with an "ATTITUDE". Then the parents, have to protect the teachings they gave the "child" as he/she was growing up. With this protection, they have to force the child out to "sink or swim", "learn for themselves", "make it or break it". In most cases the Young adult will now have to tell lies to find a new place to live. Then they build up too much pride to return to the parents and give an apology. Now, we have no communication, the child feels as if the parents, "no longer loves me" and turns further away. So, in this case, it is the child that must return and ask forgiveness, show the parents they have learned to be responsible. That the selfishness is gone, more giving, easier to talk to, more apt to listen. That they can handle their money, are not self centered. Once you do these things, return and show this through your actions, I will give my life for you, all I have is yours, the air I breath is yours, unconditional.
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