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I feel I need to give a litle background for you to see my concern for the safety of my sons...For almost 3 years my ex-wife and I have been battleing in court she has been allowed to take absolute control of the lucreative business we started together, which she now claims to have sold, and the judge still doesn't know that I owned half the business. How did this happen, she accused me of abusing our 2 1/2 year old son. So while CPS was writing a safety plan which said I was not to be alone with my sons, my ex transfered our entire customer base and opened a business account as a sole proprietor. My attorney at the time (Dec. 2007) did nothing because I think he believed my ex was telling the truth. After weeks of nobody talking to me I finally get to tell my side of the story at a grievance hearing and show pictures of the alledged abuse it was determined to be unfounded and so my name was taken of the DOJ central index. During the summer of 2008 she reported that I had stopped giving my son his medication, so CPS was back making an already difficult situation much more stressful especially for my kids. My ex had a boyfriend with a history of domestic violence, he'd done jail time etc... my two older sons who were 9 and 6 at the time had been telling me he played to ruff and when they said stop he wouldn't and their mom would stand there and say nothing. When I went to pick up my sons for my week with them my oldest came out of the house pointing to a bruise on his face saying look what mike did plus he flipped Aidan over and made him cry because he landed on his head hurting his neck. This I reported and at the end of CPS 's investigation I was back on the DOJ central index for emotional abuse, however the reason for the investigation was unfounded. And now those gender bias flunkies have not taken the kids from mom at least during the investigation...my oldest son has on several occasions had bruises which I took pictures of even though he had an explanation for the bruises. So about two weeks ago my middle son said he had something he wanted to tell there attorney. So I tried to get them in as soon as I could but their attorney was in a trial and wouldn't be available for a week and a half. So I gave my son a voice recorder and told him he could go to his room close the door and talk to his attorney. So that's what he did and I was gonna try to hand the recorder to their attorney since we had a court date like the next day....anyway he told me why his older brother was sad because I shared with him that I felt Iam was very upset about something. "We were splashing at mom and then she jumped in the pool with her clothes on twisted his older brothers arm behind his back and started dunking his head under the water". My youngest who is soon gonna be 5 told the same story to his grand mother while they were playing a game....but also added that Iam got out of thew pool and laid down on the cement like a rolly-polly (the fetal position) and cried. Since they wanted to talk to someone I took them to see a kaiser therapist with a PhD who after talking with them for ten minutes was on the phone reporting as mandated. About a week later my 10 year old started asking me questions about *** that would come from a young teenager so I answered him honestly which was at a teenage level, after about a half hour he said he thinks that him and Aidan should have an AIDS test. I didn,t ask to much as to why, but assured him I would call their Doctor in the morning and then the Dr. Could figure out what the best thing would be. So I was on the phone with a RN for an hour and fifty five minutes, she instucted me to call the law enforcement for the city where this took place and ask if there was a particular medical facility that I should bring them to or would bringing them to kaiser ER be ok....after an officer came and took a report he said bring them to kaiser the ER Doctor talked with the boys then sent an LCSW into talk with them....when she left he came back and said that she was filing a detailed report. CPS left me a message that they got the abuse report and needed to interview the boys and and make arrangements with me. She interviewed the boys and told me she would be in touch when they had an appt. Booked with the forensic Doctor...that was on the 8th of Sept and I have heard nothing my sons are at their moms house this week and I'm helpless to do anything to protect them from the emotional abuse of parent alienation that comes from a text book narcissist, my ex. Although they asked if I could prove the things I said about my ex, and I said absolutely......but they haven,t come back to see pictures, listen to audio , or watch some video I took of my son saying banging his head on the wooden rail of the bunk beds saying he wanted to die and that he was a bad person. And this video was taken about the same time Iam said the sexual assault happened which was 4 months ago. I'm watching my oldest son slowly die inside as retreats futher into his own little world......and my to younger ones so desperate to know they're loved by me that at least 10 times a day will say love you daddy, and I tell them I love them more than they know and when they're clingy I try to take a minute to pick them up and hold them letting them know they are loved........CPS does want me to take a voluntary psychological test or evaluation they have shared that with me...... sorry if I babbled on to much but this is killing me I'm their dad and suppose to protect them but I can't do anything.

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Wow, this is quite the issue here... This sounds more like you need psychological help for your sons and yourself more than any help a website can provide?! Please let me know if you need the contact information for someone in your area, or what exactly you are looking for?!

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Hi,
I feel really sorry about the incidents happened in your life.Don't
worry everything will change to good soon as you wish.God will always help on your side.
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