I was a total idiot and threw away the instructions thinking this would be a snap to figure out on my own. I don't know how to set the alarm clock to go off and how to make sure it goes off on the song on my ipod that I want. Also, when the ipod is connected, does the stop button on the remote just not work? How do I get my ipod to shut up? Do I just always have to press pause? Is there really no stop and shut up button?