My remote flashes but i dont know how to connect it i have never done it before and dont have a manual

your car alarm is acting up. try putting new batteries on the remote. also found this online. I dont know if its the same as your alarm but you can check it out. hope it helps

http://www.ultrastarters.com/manuals/Prev.Manuals/05_08/MAN-25XX-OWNERS-U-2005.pdf

Most remotes that do not work can be fixed--I would go that route first.

To help you I need to know if only some buttons do not work or all etc.

The remote if some work can be tested: most shops have a card that the remote is pointed at--buttons pressed and the tester beeps or flashes a light---this can also be done with some digital cameras where the screen will flash when remote pointed at it when on to see if only certain or all buttons on the remote are working.

The remote sends a infrared signal and this can be seen.

If only a few (usually adjacent buttons) do not work something got spilled onto remote and got inside---this can also be easy.

Let me know as much as you can. (see make a comment button on this page)

You have to change your TV's video mode. This is usually done with a TV/Video Input button on the TV's remote since the wii connects with composite (Red, White, Yellow) cables. If your TV or remote does not have an TV/Video Input button you might need to consult your TVs manual.

From the Manual:
1. With your Playstation 3 game Console on and the ON/OFF switch on the bottom of the controller set to on. Plug in the USB receiver into a USB port in the Playstation 3. The LED will flash slowly.
2. Press the "connect" button on the receiver. The LED will flash rapidly.
3. Press the "menu" button on the controller. The four channel lights will flash rapidly until the sync process is done. When the sync process is done one of the channel lights will remain solidly lit.
The manual can be found here in PDF format. http://assets.dreamgear.net/manuals/DGPS3-1324.pdf

replace batteries in remotes,then with key unlock car/hold key over windows go down,wait 20 secs,then lock/hold key over,windows go up,wait 20secs, then using remote press/hold down the unlock button for 30 secs.you have just reset the alarm/immobiliser.if remotes/keys dont work after this,then take it to a dealer for a computer/key reset.

Best Manuals
I suggest you get one of those manuals people get nowadays to do it yourself.. My nephew use it to repair my car and it's totally repaired now. Here's the website he bought it from.
reliable-store.com

http://ec1.images-amazon.com/media/i3d/01/A/man-migrate/MANUAL000053128.pdf

I hope the above helps.i can only get you the manual,as i don`t know what you are connecting to.

uhh dude. you have to sync the remote look in the manual and it will tell you how. and if you dont know it is also online at nintendo.com/wii

first make sure,that the batter is ok. You will need to have both remotes while doing this.
1: get in and lock the doors with the power door lock
2: insert the key into the ignitoin repeatedly IN and OUT 6 times in a row or just keep doing so, until the hazard flashers flash on the dash board (observe the dash board while inserting key)
3: after the hazadrs flash TURN key into the ACC position/not start.(dash will light up) DO NOT START
4: with the key in ACC position, hit lock button on the remote. That will program that remote.
5: to program the other remote simply unlock the door with the door lock switch and relock it with the swithc and hit the other remote button.
6: done

Hello, follow this link to download the manual and the codes for your remotes:
http://www.ofausa.com/remote.php?type=URC3021
just right click and save as on the download links.

if this does not work you can try the search method,
you do this by either holding down the device button eg: TV or if you have one the "magic" button for three seconds, a light should then flash twice to say you have done this correctly.
then press the keys 991 then the power button.
you must now press the channel up key (ch+) possibly upto 150 times while the remote cycles through every code.
Once your tv or device switches off stop pressing the ch+ key and press the power button to make sure it switches back on,
(if you press ch+ too many times you can go back by pressing ch-)
When complete press the magic or device key again to save the settings (light should flash twice to confirm)

Many thanks
Mark
(For replacement remotes visit www.sparky-uk.com)