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I need advice on whether to stay with my husband of leave him.

I have been married for twenty seven years now together for twenty eight year. I have had alot of turmoil in my marriage including a fling that I had after we had been marred for 18 years. I realize it was wrong but I never met him out slept with him or anything of that sort I promise. If so I would tell it because my husband didnt divorce me for it but has made me live in hell since it happened in 2008. He always said that I would never prove he done anything like that because he hadnt. A few years ago I had a friend tell me that my husband had a fling the year my second son was born (1996). I never knew about it because he hid it from me. It was a young girl around the age of 20 and he was 28. When I ask him about it 5 years or so ago he told me they were lying. A guy that used to work for my husband was supposed to have told my friend about this. So I dont know what to do because last year he decided to tell me that he did have a fling with her like I did the guy that I talked to but that was all he did. When I got to researching this, I found out from workers that were scared to talk at that time in fear of losing their jobs that they suspected a whole lot more went on than what he is telling me. For one this fling went on from 1993 to 1996 at least. I know the worker that he confided in didnt start working for us until 1998 and my husband was still talking about her then. That by the way was the year she got married to someone else also. I know how my husband is about women! I dont care if he was married or not. If she chased him and looked as good as all the guys that I talked to said she did, then he slept with her. I have tried to talk to her and I know that is wrong, but I feel like if she cheated with my husband when I had kids that it shouldnt hurt to try to talk to her about it now. She refuses to talk to me and so does her husband. I know she was cheating on her husband at that time also. They were engaged in 1996 the same year she was having the affair with my husband. I try to tell him if you cheated with her just go ahead and tell me the whole story so we can resolve it and put it behind us. But I know the reason he wont do that. He doesnt want to say that he has done anything worse than what i did with the guy I talked to. I dont know what to do. I really just want to do like he done me. He bashed my car with a ball bat, broke my phone, (didnt have one for three month)made me drive my car around for three months bashed in. Went to the guys work that I talked to and threatened to beat his car with a ball bat. What do I do? It hurts so bad. I want him to tell me the truth so I can leave him if he did and get on with my life?

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