When I plug it in the red light on the reset switch and keeps throwing the reset to off after I reset it

It's hard to fully understand what your issue is but I am guessing when you connect water supply upto your washer and have it plugged in then switch it on the machine trips out on its overload switch !!!
If this is your problem and you know the machine has power then your looking at the machine having an electrical overload, this could be due to a few things, with all electric and water disconnected some where on your machine should be a cooling fan that is attached to the motor and that is behind all the plastics. There should be an opening some where so you can use a screw driver to try and make that fan blade type thing spin, you should have some resistance it's not free spinning, if it does not turn at all your motor is sized. If it turns then you will need to take apart the machine so you can get to the electrics. Try this first