Side mirror i have an after market side mirror with a light mouted on it. How do i connect the light to blink with my signal light and be steady when i turn my lights on

Obviously there is a connection wiring problem. Jeeps monitor / control all mirror functions using control module(s). It sounds like a connection inside the mirror is either mis-connected, or has confused the control module into keeping a connection on that should be off. Your only recourse is to get Kool Vie tech to explain the problem, replace the mirror, or return the mirror. It does not bode well that neither their web site ( http://www.kool-vue.com/ ) nor their Facebook page ( https://www.facebook.com/KoolVue ) are working. Frankly, I'd go for return and then scour ebay or Rockauto for an OEM mirror.

Check for a bad ground connection.

Check , with a meter, the ground for the dim side and check available voltage to those sockets with the lights on.

Turn signal flasher. Replace with a heavy duty one.

Check all your turn signal bulbs. When one goes bad it doesn't complete a full circuit causing your lights to stay steady.

ARE THE FRONT AND REAR TURN SIGNAL INDICATOR BULBS ON STEADY AS WELL?

You have hooked them up to the wrong power wire. They have to be hooked up to the power wire after the flasher control. The easist way would be to go in the engine compartment, find the back of the turn tignal, and conect the mirror power wire (red) to the power wire there. You may need more wire than what the side mirrors came with, but this would be the quickest solution

You need to ground the negative from you mirror to a bolt or screw in the car. Then find out which is the positive in the turn signal for each side. You can do so with a test light, turn the signal on then probe the wires at the harness until the test light blinks. That's the cable, attach a cable to the signal cable how ever you choose just don't cut off the signal cable. Then run a cable to the mirror on that side. Do the same for the other side, the easiest way is to hook them up to your turn signals.

bad ground on right side

try some electric contact lube in the light socket the leads may be corroded