Transmission won't shift into 2nd gear. when i drive, the car 's rpm rev really high

Worn clutch packs. Transmission needs a rebuild.

are there any codes? Does it shift ok in 1st and 2nd? sounds like your over drive shift solenoid or your 3 and 4 shift solenoid is stuck and needs to be replaced

It winds up in 1st and then shifts right from 1st into 3rd. Then never shifts into 4th. Plus rev is gone. You broke the sun shell. The transmission will need to rebuilt or replaced.

bad transmission

When a vehicle have to achive a high RPM to shift this is a sign that the transmission is having a problem and not shifting properly, is it starting at 2nd or 3rd gear, can you tell? I recently had a transmission and the 2nd gear was bad, once the Mechanic broke down the transmission the whole thing needed rebuilding, so you may want to take it to a shop, and make sure the Test drive, and diagnostic check will be free if the repairs are done by the same shop, otherwise you will have to pay if you decide to go somewhere else.

Your transmission is in a "limp in" mode. There are 2 sensors that need replaced. Total cost should be less than $100. I had it happen to me on my 99 300m. The sensors limit the speed to about 25 mph and the RPM rev's high. Just get the sensors replaced.

clutch

remove the aircleaner intake hose and, check the intake air control flap for free movement

sounds like it may be either a converter problem or u got some bad clutches in third in the case you need to go to a tranny shop.

transmission shift solenoid rockauto.com is a cheap place to get an oem part