None of my windows work in my '93 jeep grand cherokee there are no blown fuses i can see. could there be a relay? im lost

You may have pulled a fuse on the security system and immobilizer. If that is the case, you need to reset.

https://www.google.com/search?q=2004+jeep+grand+cherokee+security+reset

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Possibly a blown fuse somewhere. Try this forum.
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The power windows in your vehicle do not have a fuse. The power window circuit is protected by a 30-Amp self-resetting circuit breaker.

The position and function of the fuses is normally marked on the inside of the fuse box cover and also in the owner's handbook. If you are looking for a blown fuse and you don't come right with the above, work your way through the fuses looking for a blown one. It is not a difficult task, especially with a small pair of pliers.

Did you check the fuse's/relay's inside and underneath the glove box?

Try checking the fuse for it or the relay by swaping it with the other side if it works then suspect a bad relay or fuse.

sounds like a blown relay and also a blown fuse or two, check the relays under the bonnet and under the dash, you will surely find a broken/worn/burnt out one, replace it (not sure which one it is but they renge from £3/$5 to about £12 - $25 then replace the fuses, if there is no bad relay then just replace any blown fuses - hopefully it's just a worn out relay and not something wrong with the windows or locks that blew the relay in the first place -

I'm sure is poped a fuse not a relay. Check the fuse box.

its in the fuse box under the hood