Sorry was not speaking of a car but a butane micro torch lighter.

no they are disposable.

There are 3 common problems:
1. Faulty Ignition. You can try to ignite the flame with a different source of ignition to verify a faulty ignition and eliminate the other issues below.

2. Clogged Nozzle. Compressed air around the nozzle may help free any debris in the nozzle that may cause the problem

3. Incorrect fuel. Some butane may be low quality and difficult to ignite. Try a different source of fuel

Turn it upside down and depress the fill port to let the air out then refill it with butane and try it another common thing is the igniter point gets pushed in and is too close to the manifold where the fuel comes through and where the flame starts at.

Why do you need to burn it for that long? If it is a small 'blow torch' style lighter they are only designed to be lit long enough to light a cigarette or cigar. If you need a flame source for longer periods of time you're better off using a full size blow torch.
The smaller cigarette 'torches' are small and made of lightweight parts. These can heat up the whole lighter. Possibly causing it to the burn the hand or even exploding!

I am going to guess that you are talking about a Cartier cigarette lighter.

This is a photo of mine.

I use Zippo butane, but any high quality butane is acceptable.

It is easy to find an adapter to fit the nozzle on the bottom.

Be certain the lighter is upside down, with the bottom of the lighter facing up, and the butane is being pressed down into the lighter, so the butane nozzle is pointing straight down.
The lighter will get cold as it fills with butane.
A burst of 5 seconds should be sufficient

There is a little black O-ring that sets on the refill valve.

turn the little knurled wheel at the base of the jet

maybe butane lighter has weak seal , or your filling it up the wrong way . try filling will lighter up side down or right way up .

Wouldnt suggest messing with it. can be dangerous,may loose a finger or worse...buy a new one.......