Can i unhooked my battery and reset my alarm on my 2001 kia spectra was told maybe for 30 minutes an lock all doors except driver side then get out lock with key the hook battery back up an get in car

You didn't say whether it was a factory alarm.
The clicking you hear is the parking light relay.
The alarm is still in trigger mode.
If its aftermarket, you should be able to go under the driver side dash ..and kill the power to the alarm. They usually have a red wire with a 10 amp fuse in the wire..
You can turn off the alarm in most cars by unlocking and locking the driver door with the key..
Also, make sure the dome lamp rocker switch is in the middle.move it back and forth and stop in the middle.sometimes the switch will get hung in between settings. This goes for the backseat light too( if you have one back there)

Check the battery for the remote and the car battery as well. Weak batteries can make modules act up. If they are good, then chances are the module for the alarm is no good.

Battery will do the same thing. Insert the fuse, then put the key in the ignition and turn it on (don't start) and see if that doesn't take care of it.

You probably need to disarm the system, try locking and unlocking the drivers door with the key if you don't have the remote.

Have you tried disconnecting the negative terminal from the battery post and waiting about 20 minutes before reconnecting it.

the anti theft is working! try manually locking your doors,then wait 15 minutes,unlock the doors with key, the last door you should lock is drivers. lock all doors from inside but drivers, when you shut drivers door,lock it from outside with the key.leave it alone for about 15 minutes please! when you unlock it with the key, if the alarm goes off, disconnect the battery for 10mins. then start over,just remember to lock the driverside door from outside this time with the key!!!

try locking than unlocking passenger side door.

reset system

security ----encrypted software dealer only

remove the battery from your remote and see if works