Safemode light appears

You need to get the computer trouble codes scanned
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code 15 is ignition output signal, an electrical problem. The engine computer sees no spark signals coming from the igniter. This is a good job for a Honda mechanic who isn't afraid of electronics.
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all my dash lights came on and then the odmeter stop working, then all the power comes off and the car suddenly shuts down

run fault codes to find the reason that the CPU keeps going into limp /shut down mode. Check oil level and water level in the radiator.

I'm guessing your battery charge lamp and oil pressure lamp are coming on when you shut down the engine. This is perfectly normal because your battery is no longer charging and your oil pressure is down because your engine isn't running. If however you've switched the ignition off and these lights appear briefly while the engine is stalling, the fault is either a diode in the alternator, or a wiring fault within the dash display. Hope that helps.

It's stalling at lights because of no brake lights. Meaning the brake light switch and transmission power to shut off the overdrive is not working. Any time you touch the brake, overdrive is turned off because power to trans is stopped when brake lights come on. Both these operations are performed by the same switch under the dash and mounted so that when the brake pedal is depressed, the switch button comes out and turns on the brake lights in turn shutting down the overdrive. Adjust or replace that brake light switch and you're good to go.

Have you replace the stereo system in the vehicle as all of the anti-theft runs through the stereo system

This problem does not seem to be the fuel pump. it appears to be an electrical problem in particular your ignition. Also check the MAF (Mass Air Flow) sensor. if the computer cannot read how much air is coming in it will try to shut down.

The security light is the factory alarm. Does this come on while driving?

hi they may have trapped the wiring on the crank position sensor or its rubed through you need to see if there is any spark to verify yates210456