The starter,it starter with it slowly grinding and starting a few times-now nothing

Possible causes of your issue:

1. bad CARBONS in your starter - solution is just to replace the carbons in your starter
2.overly advanced distributor timing - solution is not much of a DYI. it would be safer to have a mechanic check the timing since it will require checking the timing at the distributor, camshaft, and crankshaft.

If the starter was grinding when starting then the problem is the starter drive not engaging the flywheel properly.it could be worn out(starter drive)replace the starter and check the flywheel for worn or damaged teeth when the starter is off the car.